a few un-written rules about girls:
you have to have this, in general girls go for the dudes who aren't scared to express themselves
they like the guys who aren't self concious or self doubting
you don't need to have a ripped six pack (but that helps) but have confidence in what your doing when your talking to them, don't come across as stuttery and always trying make up stuff to seem better than you really are
really don't act like you know what your doing, be cool, and when you feel confident you WILL know what your doing
2- Just Ask
Now this is one of my weakness's that took me forever to sort out
this directly relates to confidence, and most dudes just simply dont have the balls to ask
and those that do stall until the chance is lost
CUT THE FOREPLAY AND JUST ASK!
there are 2 replies
Yes or No
but you will never hear ethier if you don't ask
its takes more of a man to ask a girl and get turned down
than to chicken out of asking all together!
really i cant stress it enough, if you like someone, and you feel like she's giving you hints, just go for it
stop trying to be in control and just let go, live a little
you might only get one shot, so get over yourself and ask!
Just DO IT
in the end Fortune always favor's the brave!
3- Flirting (knowing she has intrest and is right for you)
now this is the most complex
you will in general be able to pick up if a chick has intrest
but the main things about flirting:
-Give Her ALL your Attention
-start out slow (light chatting) and don't suddenly jam your hand up her skirt, build up a trust
-I know its hard but actually listen to what she says!
i can't possibly write or know all the ways and tips in flirting but you will above all need to learn to just chill out more, try say things that make her laugh, and be sweet everynow and again, if you rain them with sexually charged expressions you could come across as to desprate
and as with everything it will become more natural and more fun with experience, so get out there and do it!
hope this elightens a few of you